Recently, there are many people who come to me for help in their relationships. Some question why is it that the man they love do not give them the respect. Some complain that their wives are not giving them the attention. Some even suggest that they want Divorce. With all the negativity, it really does not make my work any easier trying to help these people.
From the book a Course in Miracle, it is quoted, önly love is real and all are but illusions". Personally, I go with that philosophy very much. The world can be a better place if we can learn to see that only by the power of love then can life be real. All relationship starts from True love and end in hatred. The end here means ending a relationship and not end the journey. Only by loving we can complete the cycle of love. True Love is something which cannot be faked or imitated. It comes from your heart to love someone or something unconditionally. IT cannot be explain and that is why Love is so real. It is like existance, we cannot explain exisitance and yet we know it is there.
If we always whine about how bad life can be and not see things in a postive light, then we can only blame it on ourselves. No one can ever make us angry. Why? The reason is simple, when something happen, our mind tell us that we are suppose to feel this emotion because we are taught so. So people behave angrily at others. We view violence more than love. When someone insult us we feel offended and we choose to react negatively. But never once, at the fit of anger we will kiss someone, this is what we assume as illogical. Yet, we all assume that Divorcing someone when we are angry is logical. What an irony?
Let aside the philosophy, if you out of your anger left the one you love the most, who will hurt the most? No one but you and your partner. If you choose forgiveness and have your love one with you, there is always chance to rebuild the relationship. That is why we honor the holy sacrament and vow of not leaving one another in sickness, poverty and sadness. If we can choose love over hate, then maybe we can find a note of miracle.
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