loving colors

Last week we talked about crystals that helped in healing relationships and there have been feed backs from readers saying that they are kind of in a budget situation. Well the wondrous thing about life is that there are always alternatives. Energy exists not only in crystals but also in different color group. If we know how to tap into the different color then we will be able to use their energy to help us forge a better relationship.

Generally the color Coral (on the right) is best used for people who have a sense of self worth issue. Generally people face one very serious situation in relationship and that is a sense of worthiness in the relationship. It is common people always keep complaining they do not have enough of this and that, which we see comes from a sense of self worth. If we do not recognize that we do not need anyone to make us worthy then we will constantly be seeking for someone to recognize us. The ironic part of life is that we never need anyone to prove how good we are. But our inner desire is to be seen by others. So coral helps us to develop the self worth.

The color magenta (on the left) is a color, which is very good for people who constantly get caught up in the giving and giving game. When we give too much in life we sometimes feel drain and this is what the color help us to address. Magenta is known to be the healer’s healer where it can help the giving feel more at peace in giving.  Sometimes we may have unconsciously chosen to be saviors in our relationship and we just keep giving without receiving and this would eventually create the lack of appreciation. Magenta helps us to feel a sense of warmth from giving and not get stuck with the dense emotion, which comes with giving too much.

Wearing the color as a clothing or accessory would be very helpful in making on work with the energy of the color. This would be a cheap and yet effective way to help in the above situations. 

Crystals for love

Love does not always go the way that we want. Sometimes it goes wrong and there is a lot situation that comes about in it. Perhaps we can argue about the responsibility of who cause the pain. However one of the more important thing about the situation is to allow oneself to recover from it. When there is a emotional trauma, we can consider using the following crystals for emotional well-being.

1) Pink Tourmaline (left)
It is a very helpful crystal that can help in releasing emotional guilt from ourselves. This also help us to break through from emotional stagnancy.

2) Rhodonite (right)
The magnesium within the crystal helps to absorb pain and then heals the emotional pain one receive from argument.

Only when we are able to take look at the pain of our being then we are able to let go of the sadness that we have. Therefore these two crystal also allow us to bring ourselves to face the pain and let it go.

A new journey again

Today is a rather exciting day for me at the airport since I am going to one of the sacred sites in the world japan. To be honest this trip is a pure manifestation of the angels and through the loving blessings of my sister and brother in law I am going to my dream land. I have been traveling the last few month and I think we have to some times learn to ask for a break and just enjoy.

Working with the angels these few month have taught me more of how heaven works and create with us. Working with different people have gave me profound insights on how one can be naughty and nice. Really nothing to be judgmental about. In the end all are just trying to protect their rights.

If we learn to see life as an opera where villains come in to make climax then leave, perhaps we will not suffer so much also. I guess I have lots more to learn.

This year I been to 5 different country for my spiritual work - Switzerland, India, Hong Kong, East&west Malaysia and Japan. Quite a journey for me. I intend that me and the angel will show more ways to work with different places.

Until then happy new year to all you angels :)



Blessings with love and light
Kelvin Khemery

Debunking myth

The color black is not good for luck? Well this is a repeatedly argued topic by many feng shui master and to me the notion is simple black is neutral to the intention of the user. If you believe black to be something evil then here are some little things to let you know more about the color black.

Black is a color of protection it is mentioned by author Alice Baliey and also by many other Wicca practitioners. It help us to protect us negative spell and attack from people. If you are commonly backstabbed then this color would work well for you.

Following the trend young people commonly like the color black as it help to empower. Black brings about power to the one who wears it. If you have a black color shirt you can wear it to help bring your power up.

Color are innocent and they have no right or wrong so when you see black, hope this bring about a new understanding for you

Blessings with love and light

The reason for living

People are always trying to justify why our life have to be like a certain way. We think about how to make our life worth. We do what people think is good for us and make ourselves believe in what others may think is good for us. I remember watching Parcey Jackson and it talked about hell as a place where all unfulfilled dreams goes to? So what happens to our dreams? What happen to what we desire within.

The Buddha said every way comes from the essence of the heart. Our dreams come from oir heart, our life comes from how we live what our heart and mind believe. The value of existence begins first from our heart. If we believe our life is nothing worth, then it will be. Our value of existence is never meant to be quantified by someone or some act.

It is by the very virtue of understanding and entertaining what you feel that slowly you quantify your value. What is your desire and wish? It maybe time you start doing how you feel :)


Blessings with love and light

Counting blessings

Many things have happened since my trip from Switzerland and it was not easy for me. Perhaps people all had extraordinary expectation on me. The trip let me realized how nice it is to be back home to have my simple meal and just be contented.

Life can sometime be very demanding and we should learn to take a step back to realize how much we have and where we are. When you are in Europe omelet cost a bomb! Oyster omelet no way man. Time to appreciate the delicacies.


Blessings with love and light

The meaning of Happiness

Everyone wants to find happiness in their life, whether it is in romance or in work. The persuit for happiness is a never ending one. Yet most of the time, we are like blind bats moving from one spot to another. Some of course would also go into the situation where the blind follow the blind. When you think that person can lead you to happiness and yet ironically he may not be happy himself, then thats what I call the blind leading the blind.

Buddhism says that True happiness is liberation from suffering. Sounds very obvious right? Christians says True Happiness is to seek Salvation in Christ. Sounds very logical is it not? But if so then why so many Buddhist and Christians are not happy? Do not get me wrong when I say this. I have due respect for the Buddha and Jesus Christ, also I believe some of the followers really found happiness. But what about us? People who are just looking for something a little less complicated?

Then the answer we have to start to reflect. What will make us happy? Is it money? Is it love? Go search for it then if it is so. It is sick to tell someone, I want happiness in money, but I do not want to work so hard. Face it, this is LIFE. If we cannot understand this rule, we will never find the way to happiness. Liberation from suffering must come from recognizing that life is suffering. Also Salvation is to recognize Jesus teaching is the Path back to the father's mansion. So Happiness is from recognizing that we have to persuit what we want. When we get it, we are happy, even though it may not be eternal bliss but we are happy. You can never get happiness just by waiting. Even if you want liberation or salvation, you have to walk to register with the local church and temple is it not.

Moving on is the important factor that will determine whether you can find happiness. Always standing for things to happen will not make things happen. Even though I may not be happy completely but I know if I take even one step, I have already draw myself closer to happiness. So start to find your happiness now.